A repository for institutional knowledge about (presumably) fictional internet personality ELLEN BARSHEVSKY
The smelly foreigner resurfaces. But why is Ellen concerned that the stink be attributed to her? Everyone should know that these women smother themselves with perfume long before showering.
My RA was very nice to me. He was a junior when I was a freshman. He helped me with adjusting to dorm life, and was the first guy that I let touch me below the belt. We never did have sex because I was too scared and young, but I often think back about whether I should have because the guy I lost my virginity to as a sophomore was a real jerk.
Alice, you do not sound like you had much discretion in college. To lose your virginity to a guy you should have cared for him. It seems you may only have wanted to try sex, but leave love at the door. To fantasize now, years later, about whether your RA should have been the one to take your virginity is somewhat strange, especially since you do admit you let him go "below the belt" back then, which sounds a bit like him taking advantage of a young freshman in your tender virginal years.