WOW, your guy sound’s like even more of a doosh then Alan. FOOEY!
I am VERY sorry you had to go thru this. BUT you are on the RIGHT track if you follow thru and DUMP him like I finaly did with Alan.
You sound young, so there WILL be other guy’s interested in you that will treat you right. You are NOT a doctor, so you are NOT obliegated to treat his mediceal issue’s. I know it is tough, especially AFTER you have been intimeate with a guy, to dump him but you CAN do it.
When I told Alan finaly to leave, I felt like a HUGE burden was lifted from me. Yes it is nice to have a guy to hold you and be romantic, but beleive me, cleaning up after him is something I do NOT miss. Also, the drinkeing, vommitting, and takeing my money to buy more VODDKA is not what I want in a man. You should NOT either, b/c you do NOT even know what this guy could have in his CLOSET.
If you go to Gradueate school, you will meet men who are interested in you. I did and alot of professor’s too. These men will make you forget about this doufuss. Myrna told me that I would never find a guy as long as I stayed with Alan and she was right. Even tho the right guy has not come around yet, I know he will come around. I am workeing out and trying to be optomstic that a good guy will see me for what I am and take me as he find’s me. That will work for you also. Yay!!!!